take a break

If you have a problem and you think you cannot resolve it by yourself do not be shy to ask assistance from your friends. You will be surprised the solution is not very far away. You need other people to see your problem from a different angle. It also helps if you detached yourself from your problem just a little while and come back to it with a fresh mind. Go get a shower, watch your favuorite tv programme, etc and then come back to your problem. You will find it will make the difference.